Wednesday, March 26, 2014

Why I Come to Oak Tree Corner: Part Two

Today's installment is by Bonnie Burrell, who facilitates the adult group in Beavercreek.



My two oldest nephews were six and three when their mother died. It was 1988 and I admit the entire family was ignorant regarding children's grief. My brother, their father, talked to his pastor for himself and that was it. My brother turned the boys over to his wife's mother to raise them. He removed all pictures of his dead wife, don't ask me why. My husband and I would pick the kids up every other weekend and I tried to attend all their sporting events.

My mother died by suicide in 1993 and my brother jokingly told my nephews that she had died while on the toilet. I talked to both of them and explained to them that Grandma had been really sad since my other brother had died in 1986 and had killed herself. I also asked them to come to me if they ever felt that way.

Around 1996, my eldest nephew was breaking into cars to get money to buy marijuana. There were other issues he was dealing with, like their dad remarrying and his girlfriend moving. Once, when both boys were staying over, the oldest said he felt like killing himself because no one would care. I talked to him immediately. I called their grandma and his dad to alert them about what he’d said. The following day I went to our employee assistance program and they told me about Oak Tree Corner. I passed the info along to my brother, who did nothing.

A few weeks later, I got my paycheck and was surprised to find a notice about Oak Tree Corner holding a volunteer training. I’ve been volunteering ever since.

As of right now, my oldest nephew is doing well, with a family of his own. Unfortunately, the youngest hasn’t fared that well. He’s a heroin addict, in and out of jail. Currently, he’s doing well and we’re all hopeful.

What keeps me coming back to Oak Tree is that if I feel I made the tiniest difference in a grieving child’s life, I can’t ask for more than that.

Bonnie has been with Oak Tree Corner since 1996. She’s an avid sports fan and enjoys gardening and hanging out with her family and pets in her free time. Bonnie works at Kettering Health Network as a Medical Lab Technician. She’s worked there for 44 years.

Friday, March 14, 2014

Silver Lining Celebration - Saturday, April 12th!

Oak Tree Corner will be hosting the annual Silver Lining Celebration on April 12th, 2014 at the Oak Tree Corner house in Oakwood. The celebration will last from noon to 6pm. Come join us for refreshments, conversation, and fantastic raffle prizes!

The raffle drawing will begin at 5:30pm. You need not be present to win, but we do need you to be there to support Oak Tree Corner and hundreds of children. We hope to see you!

Can’t make it on April 12th? Consider making an online donation, or take a look at some of the other ways you can help Oak Tree Corner.

Oak Tree Corner's Silver Lining Celebration
2312 Far Hills Ave.
Dayton, OH 45419

Saturday, April 12
12pm - 6pm

Please call us at (937) 285-0199 or email us at oaktreecorner@mail.com with any questions.


Wednesday, March 12, 2014

Why I Come to Oak Tree Corner: Part One

In our last post, we explored what an Oak Tree Corner meeting is like. We begin each meeting by passing around a talking stick, stating our name and why we come to Oak Tree Corner.

We’re introducing a new series of posts today, aptly titled “Why I Come to Oak Tree Corner,” in which current and past members will share what brought them to Oak Tree Corner and why they continue to come. We hope you enjoy them!

Today's post is by Jennifer Crocker, who has been volunteering for Oak Tree Corner since 2003.